dear dear was thinking tat i shldnt go for it, as he wanted to help me do marketing and cleaning up before my reunion dinner tmr...but i insisted cos its always nice to catchup with frens, ya?
so we made a compromise, we gg to do some marketing, and then join the rest for wine at barcelona,md sultan...but we only make it there at say, 11? hehehee... so as usual, I kena suan jialat jialat, hehehe...
we got our truly frens all thr : Ernest, CK, SK, Joey and Tony
we had very interesting conversations (besides, kena suan for rubbertime:P)
So below is a snapshot of our conversation :
Ernest : Singapore gals no use one, wans gifts every significant day(ie, date of knowing each other lah, first date lah, anniversary lah, bdae lah, v-day lah, xmas lah...blar blar blar...)
David : *giggles*
Wendy tinks :
*date of knowing : hm....can use 1-Aug? Orientation day...but i dun tink we knoe each other tat day lei...hm...the fish bee hoon lunch with wooncai, kevin and gang is which day huh? jialat!
*first date : coffee at vivo 2-Dec
*Anniversary : 20-Dec
*Bdae : 24 and 27 Jan
*v-Day : 14-Feb
*Xmas : 25-Dec
got anymore? *grin*
Ernest : somemore, Singapore gals dun cook one, u got to cook for them and clean all the dishes.. tats why i choose a thai gf...she cooks and then after eating, she will say...darling, u go to the bed and watch tv, i will wash all the dishes...
David : *giggles*
Wendy tinks: giggles means? Hm….(Msg for Ernest, yaloh, go bkk, eat and sleep only right? No wonder….i can see the “change”)
CK : Ernest, now u say wat oso no use one, still honeymoon period....
Joey : yaloh, try again one year later
Ernest : yahor, now say wat oso no use..*sigh*
*went slience for while*
Ernest : But hor, its reali true one, u knoe? wendy is our very good fren, but still, all gals are like tat one...
SK : hm...shouldnt we say all these when wendy is not around?
Ernest : yahor...hm...
Wendy tinks : hm….u tink I’ll ever let tat happens? :P
*Ernest turns to Wendy*
Ernest : Wendy, I tell u now, now honeymoon period, everything oso ok...next time, everything oso not ok...(Now), David will says: they are meeting for wine, i go meet u then we go together :)...late? nvm lah, let them wait loh ; (future) Go for wine huh? u drive right? i see u thr uh? (Now) u 2 sit together hor? Like super glue like tat; (future) u 2 will sit a table apart, if not, 2. *WAHAHA*
*Ernest turns back to David*
Ernest : David, you knoe? All women the same one…they very ***(opps! Iforgot the word), They will tell u, all your money is mine, and all my money is still mine…sigh...
David : *smile*
Wendy : For that, I have to agree, hehehee
Ernest : i advise u, if there are things Wendy is not happie, just let it be..if she wanna leave, let her go, she will come back one...
David : *hug me, and then smile*
Wendy tinks: hm...means wat huh? hm...
Wendy : Ernest, u gg to be on our blog ;)
***David = Kobi ; Wendy = Meow meow****JUS FOR LUFFS* *ERNEST IS STILL OUR BEST FRENS****
Meow meow’s TOTS :1. Honeymoon period
I have to agree tat there is always a honeymoon period, but also, it is up to the couple how they maintain the relationship. Sparks may not be everytime everywhere, it is like, if you see fireworks everyday, will it still be so beautiful and magnificent anymore? Maybe it will end up like noise?
It is a matter of how u keep the sparks gg…keep it simple, doing things together is one of the most effective ways; give little surprises, whisper little sweet nothings(only when u meant it, women are very sensitive creatures, they can sense if u r faking it:p)
2. Time for Gifts and Celebration
Everyone do knoe tat celebrations are invented by smart marketers to boost their sales....v-day may be invented as sales may be low for CNY festivals? Cos all shoppings are done in Jan already?
Be it whether it is a gimmick or some smart marketers inventions, it is still a good day, a good reason to show your affectionate for your love ones :)
However, you can always avoid being cheated by some outrageously priced menus by cooking at home? Having a nice picnic at East Coast Park/ West Coast Park / Pasir Ris Park / Esplanade / For Canning or even Sentosa? Going for a short getaway?
3. Sharing of Household chores and Cooking
I nvr mind cooking, and both of us love to cook and oso of cos, my dear dear dun mind helping out in the cleaning as well… its not a matter of who is cleaning it, its sharing the chores and doing it together… if u wan someone who does all the cooking and chores…hm…looking to maid huh?
4. Your money my money, my money my money
Hm…for this one, I tink traditionally, this has always been the case…I have to agree 70%, so it is a shared responsibility, but man will still have a heavier portion.
Let me put it this way : say when u have kids, its normally the women who sacrifices their job and look after the kids, and ultimately when a relationship dun work out, especially with kids, most of the time, it’s the woman who take care of the kids, also, it’s difficult to get another job or even find another partner…so money will come in handy when things like these happens…so there is always a rationale as to why things are in a certain way till now…
5. Ignore her tantrums
Ignore me huh? wat is the purpose lei? So that I will not be pampered? If gf is not for u to pamper then? hm...
So in conclusion, if you are looking for a someone to cook, clean, no need for you to pamper, and your money is still your money, hm...maybe…you can get a maid…more effective :p
2 comments:
Fwah, you wrote a lot ... for one so into one liners and quips .. that's a lot of words .. but I must say it has been insightful
hehhehe....cos its dialogue? no choice lei...ppl tok so much, i tink i only write down less than 20% of wat the drunker said. hehehhe...
CK, SK, Joey, Tony and our dearest Ernest, got things to add?
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